It has been a crazy week. Milestones blurring by almost as rapidly as hours in the day. I wonder what to write. Mostly I wonder where to start. How to share all the exciting miracles, encouraging triumphs and hurdles we have faced in the last few days. Bottom line? Dad is doing amazing. Goals have been smashed. We have a long way to go, yet with the seemingly constant barrage from his “family of care” team, Dad has been keeping his spirits up and motivating along. Sure we have been dancing the recovery dance. 3 steps forward, 1 back, 2 to the side and back again. Dad has some days where the medications seem to be working on overdrive confusing and muddling his thoughts, while other days are much better. He is still in a fair amount of pain and trying to think through the narcotics is tough enough, much less focusing through a good rattle to the brain.
We had another eye specialist come in and look at Dad’s eyes. Right now he can only see very limitedly from his left eye. Is this an injury thing that will self correct? Is it some trauma that can be healed? Only time will tell, and Dad’s eye guys are putting a game plan together designed to restore as much sight in Dad’s eyes as possible.
Dad’s fine motor skills are clicking along. Buttoning a shirt is a snap, almost. While working on bringing a spoon to his mouth to eat soup, Dad stopped and thought for a few moments. Then smiled and picked up the bowl with both hands and slurped away. My kids would have been proud.
Dad had a therapy dog come and visit him as well. An unexpected and awesome treat for Dad. Nothing brings a smile to a face better than shakes and snuggles from our hairy 4 legged friends. Maybe one day Dad will have a therapy dog of his own.
Dad is increasing his standing time during his physical therapy. As well as his coordination and upper body strength by wheeling himself around the hospital wing. Imagine the concentrating grin on his face as he, very nearly blindly, follows the voice ahead of him down the path. Steer to your left, now straight, slow down a little you have a wall coming up. Dad asked if he had a special racing wheel chair, because he noticed the wheels had a slight camber to them. He seemed a little bummed to learn his chair was just a “normal” chair. It matters little though because soon Dad will be racing along.
Please continue to pray for Dad’s healing, especially for his sight. Also, please pray for us, his family, as we attempt to maintain some sense of normalcy for ourselves and the kids while trying to make the hour long trip over to see Dad everyday.
Thank you all so much for your constant prayers, please don’t forget to leave a comment so we know you’re there, sometimes I feel like I’m writing to update myself... emails and phone calls work too.
~With Integrity
Thanks for posting updates. I look every day to see if you have written and I really do appreciate anything you post. You, your family, and your Dad are in my prayers!
ReplyDeleteMarlin - Rest assured we are reading. I just read your colorful post to my ninos as we tucked them into bed. I check for your words everyday; it is my way of staying connected to my "Oregon family." You have been given a gift of words. I pray that the day will come when you and yours can look back at the journey your have captured here and breathe of sigh of relief that much of it is in the past. Until then, I cling to your words and pray. I cannot believe you and Sarah now have four children. Somehow I totally missed a couple years of your life. Ours our now 9, 9, 7, and 6. Hugs to all, Annette
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ReplyDeleteI'm Kristiaan's mom Wendy and I have been following along since day one. Interestingly enough, Kris had just given me two of Elson's Balloon cards just before the accident and wanted to know if I wanted to look into going on a ride.
Thank you so much for taking the time to post these bloggs. I'll do better in writing something but I have to tell ya it's kinda been hard to get on. You can't just post a comment.
I remember Eldon as the Key Man back in the 80's. Bless his heart!! We will continue to lift him in prayer along with Sandy and your family. With much love, Wendy
Marlin,
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for the updates, we haven't seen your folks for several years, but they are both in our thoughts and prayers. Just know that your Dad's healing is in God's hands and in his time and often his time his slower than ours. There's a lot of people that check this blog daily for news. Thank you, I know it's one extra thing for you to do but we all appreciate it.
Give your folks our best! Rodger & Sherry Jordan
Hi Eldon,
ReplyDeleteWe're reading, we're reading! I check your blog daily. I was just trying not to leave too many comments for some reason.
Glad to hear about your Dad slurpin' his soup, and wheelin' down the halls.........lol. Great visuals in my mind!
His eye sight problem is just too much. I hope that they will be able to do something for him.
I am glad that at times, he feels in good spirits.
I really think you should write a book or something. Seriously. This would be a good time, as you sit at your Dad's side.
I don't necessarily think this is what you should write a book about., just any book.
XOXO
Jeanne Woodhead Theisen
Hey Marlin,
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for your constant updates, its been wonderfull to see his progress and know exactly how to pray for him. We will keep your family in our prayers too that God would give you all the strength to keep on going! His grace in sufficient!
Laurie (Grim) Swales
Wow, Eldon's progress sounds great! Looking forward to visiting him in person.
ReplyDeleteWe appreciate you posting these updates.
We were so happy to learn of your blog Marlin. Thank you so much for your beautifully written words. It is such a blessing for us to be able to share in Eldon's recovery and miracles. Our thoughts and prayers are always with all of you. It truly is wonderful being able to feel so close to all of you through your updates. The special prayer requests are appreciated too. Thank you! Blessings to all of you and a great big hug for you Sandy! Love, Chris and Patty Matthews
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